Laika Ravikumar Posted October 22, 2018 Share Posted October 22, 2018 So I was partnered with this guy. I really liked him. However it was like I had the house he didn't even think to contribute. I bought him the suit, which incidentally he never took off, or changed clothes. We had this disagreement where he tell me I am so negative some of the time. I leave next night he does not come online, I guess that was a punishment,. I IM him saying if you want to dissolve the partnership feel free. So he then tells me he is st stressed that he does not know if he will be logging in for a while due to rl and plus stress with my behaviour so if I want to end it fine he wishes me all the best. So there you go in the blink of an eye we are done. I actually read his im and said yes I will end this. In all the time I have been on sl have had 4 relationships, one when I was noob and didnt know better, two for almost 6 years, 3 we were just never here at same time but still best friends (he is lovely) and then this. From now on not doing this lol. If you see me partnered please tell me I am an idiot . ty to all the lovely people on forums hugs 1 2 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phorumities Posted October 22, 2018 Share Posted October 22, 2018 6 minutes ago, Laika Ravikumar said: So I was partnered with this guy. I really liked him. However it was like I had the house he didn't even think to contribute. I bought him the suit, which incidentally he never took off, or changed clothes. We had this disagreement where he tell me I am so negative some of the time. I leave next night he does not come online, I guess that was a punishment,. I IM him saying if you want to dissolve the partnership feel free. So he then tells me he is st stressed that he does not know if he will be logging in for a while due to rl and plus stress with my behaviour so if I want to end it fine he wishes me all the best. So there you go in the blink of an eye we are done. I actually read his im and said yes I will end this. In all the time I have been on sl have had 4 relationships, one when I was noob and didnt know better, two for almost 6 years, 3 we were just never here at same time but still best friends (he is lovely) and then this. From now on not doing this lol. If you see me partnered please tell me I am an idiot . ty to all the lovely people on forums hugs ok will do ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laika Ravikumar Posted October 22, 2018 Author Share Posted October 22, 2018 Thanks you are always so lovely on here.? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rhonda Huntress Posted October 22, 2018 Share Posted October 22, 2018 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Callum Meriman Posted October 22, 2018 Share Posted October 22, 2018 4 hours ago, Laika Ravikumar said: I bought him the suit, which incidentally he never took off, or changed clothes. Ahh, one of these.... well, you are better off without him! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleMe Jewell Posted October 22, 2018 Share Posted October 22, 2018 5 hours ago, Laika Ravikumar said: So I was partnered with this guy. I really liked him. However it was like I had the house he didn't even think to contribute. I bought him the suit, which incidentally he never took off, or changed clothes. We had this disagreement where he tell me I am so negative some of the time. I leave next night he does not come online, I guess that was a punishment,. I IM him saying if you want to dissolve the partnership feel free. So he then tells me he is st stressed that he does not know if he will be logging in for a while due to rl and plus stress with my behaviour so if I want to end it fine he wishes me all the best. So there you go in the blink of an eye we are done. I actually read his im and said yes I will end this. In all the time I have been on sl have had 4 relationships, one when I was noob and didnt know better, two for almost 6 years, 3 we were just never here at same time but still best friends (he is lovely) and then this. From now on not doing this lol. If you see me partnered please tell me I am an idiot . ty to all the lovely people on forums hugs The dude sounds like one of my SL relationships many years ago. As another said, you are definitely better off without him. It is not often easy to spot the jerks right away, but we continue on, learning as we go. Even if you do decide to do the relationship/partnership thing again, take some time for yourself first. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laika Ravikumar Posted October 23, 2018 Author Share Posted October 23, 2018 Lol thinking about it he probably didn’t dissolve it in case he actually had to pay for something. ? 1 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sylvannas Zulaman Posted October 23, 2018 Share Posted October 23, 2018 He's the idiot, not you. I bet his cheap ass can't even purchase anything for himself. Good riddance for you, next step is shoving off your happiness on his face by not even responding to his IMs because he will probably come after you after noticing he lost his wallet ? 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ceka Cianci Posted October 23, 2018 Share Posted October 23, 2018 This saying always kind of confused me.. "There are plenty of fish in the sea" I can't remember ever going fishing for only one fish.. To me it say's,Go have lots of fun.. hehehehe 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Talligurl Posted October 23, 2018 Share Posted October 23, 2018 18 hours ago, Laika Ravikumar said: we were just never here at same time but still best friends (he is lovely) This is the way it is with me and my partner, I highly recommend it. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laika Ravikumar Posted October 23, 2018 Author Share Posted October 23, 2018 I won’t be seeing an messages from him as he is well and truly blocked he can find another source of income, good luck with that. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bree Giffen Posted October 23, 2018 Share Posted October 23, 2018 You need to take the reigns in your relationship. I mean that literally. There must surely be some horse saddle type bdsm gear in SL. Whip him gently. 1 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetosilio Posted October 23, 2018 Share Posted October 23, 2018 I think the important thing op is that you learn from your mistakes and you don’t make them anymore. We all make mistakes when it comes to relationships. I know I did and I made the kind that would be embarrassing to retell here. I was much younger when I made them and I know the red flags to look out for. Some people like to make it seem like it’s easy to make a love connection in SL. The truth is it’s not easy and it’s extremely rare. There are also predators out there that prey on people just looking to make a connection. You live and you learn. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolinestravels Posted October 29, 2018 Share Posted October 29, 2018 On 10/23/2018 at 1:39 PM, Laika Ravikumar said: he can find another source of income, good luck with that. It's us girls who should be at the recieving end (pun intented). 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xoRenaxo Posted October 29, 2018 Share Posted October 29, 2018 On the bright side, it is disappointments like this that make us much more grateful for the good people. "Life is all about sweet and sour, dark and bright, happy and sad... you can never appreciate the beauty of something without knowing how ugly other things are." - Ghassan El-labadi 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna Underall Posted October 29, 2018 Share Posted October 29, 2018 5 hours ago, carolinestravels said: It's us girls who should be at the recieving end (pun intented). OMG, hahaha 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna Underall Posted October 29, 2018 Share Posted October 29, 2018 On 10/23/2018 at 12:36 PM, janetosilio said: We all make mistakes when it comes to relationships. I know I did and I made the kind that would be embarrassing to retell here. I was much younger when I made them and I know the red flags to look out for. Absolutely true. And while I like to think I know how to spot them now, so many guys are that way in SL that sometimes I am just a better safe than sorry kind of person! 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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