1 - For you couples in SL, do you get together with the intention of meeting in RL or, is it strictly SL for you?
2 - Also, what are your thoughts about people with RL partners (bf/gf/wife/husband) who have partners in SL? This includes RL partners that do, or do not know about the SL relationships?
My answer - Personally, I think as long as the real-life partner knows about the SL relationship and is OK with it, then no one has any rights to judge. Actually honestly, I don't think anyone has any "right" to judge anyone else unless it directly affects that person. Does that make sense?
I don't see how a rl partner would NOT know about an online partnership, friendship, or whatever the relationship is in SL.